Martin and Tabitha famoulsy known as the Tamaras on Youtube have shared how they have built a friendship with their respective exes, who visit them often for sleepovers.

Those exes are married to each other.

Speaking to Reke Ciume na Ene about their decision to welcome exes into their marital home, Martin revealed that they are mature about it.

His ex was his former lover and business partner. 

"After 1 or 2 years I felt this was not meant for me, so we split. She is even best friends with my wife. Very good friends. "

Tabitha confirms these details

"We are not good friends, but we are friends, we are not bad friends. We help each other.In fact I helped her alot when she was about to give birth. I went shopping for her, she sent me"

The four met and bonded over their respective marriage plans. 

Tabitha told a curious Ala C about that interesting encounter

"We met her with her fiancé, and then Martin told me this is the girl I used to date. I don't think she knows I know she dated Martin before me."

The two couples are now friends

"We went to their wedding, and they came to ours. I still don't think that girl knows I know she was lovers with Martin"

Martin was also a coworker of Tabitha's ex-boyfriend as well "Yeah we used to work together."

Tabitha and her ex-boyfriend split after two years over cheating. She found dirty chats after they exchanged phones when he got a new job.

After some time, Martin and Tabitha met.

Martin explained why he still keeps in touch with his ex-girlfriend

"There was no bad blood. It depends on how adult you are. I know my boundaries. That couple has even slept in my marital home. We have also slept in their house as a couple. So, we have that friendship that has limits."

Tabitha also added how it works

"She has her man, and I don't have trust issues. and even if they talk, she makes sure they are mature. We are very mature about it." she insisted.