Steve Massage or Lekshara as he is known to his Kenyan fanbase is a source of inspiration to women for his relationship advice.

He often advises single mums not to remarry. 

He is now opening up about this, citing his upbringing as the reason he holds such beliefs.

His mother was 20, single, and remarried. The experiences affected him as he rebelled over issues like discipline, in-laws, and loyalty among others.

Speaking to Kameme FM, Steve regretted his actions. 

He shared that his advice to women is from this

"It's not jaba, I have seen a lot"

Steve said that his uncles became the father figure.

"Don't expect your spouse to feel the same about your children as you do. You find the child going through a lot.

The bitterness that I had came from there. Stand with your child to the end, don't think that you will find another partner who will love your child like you do. It is impossible. This thing of the stepfather is a lie. ' he hinted about the dynamics he faced. He rebelled, "Looking back, the pain was from there"