Comedian Oga Obinna opens up on two suicide attempts
- Published By Jane Njeri For The Statesman Digital
- 3 months ago
Comedian Oga Obinna has shared his past struggles with mental health, including two failed suicide attempts.
Speaking during a recent mental health awareness walk, Obinna recounted his battle with depression and financial hardship, which led him to believe that ending his life was the only solution.
“I have been poor, I have wanted to commit suicide, but I never gave up. Please look at me now and say, it is possible,” Obinna said, addressing those who might be going through similar struggles.
“If you have never been dumped if you have never gotten dark, then you might not know what I am saying.”
Obinna’s openness about his struggles is part of his broader effort to raise awareness about mental health, particularly among men, who often suffer in silence.
“I am not telling men that I have the solution to help them,” he clarified, “but I have created an avenue to market themselves and for them to realize that they are not alone.”
In a separate interview, Obinna reflected on the lessons he has learned throughout his journey.
“I have made mistakes and learned many lessons,” he admitted. “However, patience, planning, hard work, persistence, discipline, and consistency have played a major role.”
Obinna encouraged people to be bold and take life risks, rather than adhere strictly to societal expectations.
“Don’t be afraid to experiment. A lot of people will tell you to stay in your lane or fall in line. You have to ask yourself, who defines the lane, you or them? Be daring, be curious, be experimental, for nobody has the blueprint to live the perfect life.”
“Although some days will be tough, the sun will always rise,” he said.
“It’s not easy to make it when going by the book. It will take a lot of time. You will feel pressure and be stressed or even depressed. Like me, you might opt for the easier way out of suicide. Don’t do it, you will allow them to win.”
Obinna also emphasized the impact that suicide has on loved ones, urging anyone contemplating it to reconsider.
“Suicide leaves behind such a bad headache for the family that anyone considering it should think twice about that decision,” he said.
“I repeat, don’t ever think in this direction. It will not only not solve anything but also cause a lot of pain and suffering to those who love you.”
As he reflected on his journey, Obinna shared a piece of wisdom he has gained through his experiences.
“I’ve owned a couple of material things, from cars to houses to clothes to land, etc. I’ve learned this: Celebrate every win as it comes and don’t explain yourself to anybody,” he advised. “However, there is more satisfaction in giving than receiving, without others knowing, without posting about it.”
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