For months now speculation has been rife that businesswoman Cebbie Koks and her lawyer husband Steve Ogolla have parted ways.

This was after the couple deleted most of each other's photos on their respective social media platforms.

In a long social media post, Cebbie has cryptically hit at her haters saying they are attention seekers.

"The cycle of hurt" suggests that individuals who desire attention or feel rejected can become aggressive.

Various psychological factors contribute to this shift from seeking attention to engaging in cyberbullying.

 The anonymity of online platforms allows them to hide behind screens and express their frustrations in ways they wouldn't in face-to-face interactions."

Debbie added that some people find solace in belittling others.

"It is highly likely, in fact, all the time, these individuals initially sought attention from the people they now target, but their desires go unfulfilled.

Or; They’re seeking their attention and believe they’ll be recognized. 

When their efforts fail, frustration sets in, and their hurt is reflected in their negative posts. The inability to obtain desired attention can lead to frustration, which may manifest as anger or resentment towards the person they once admired or found intriguing."

In conclusion, Cebbie pointed out that some people admire things they can't get and end up getting bitter if things don't go their way.

"There 4, to regain control and inflict emotional harm, these individuals resort to derogatory messages or hate speech.

Another reason is to woo other women into being in good books with them hoping they don’t fall victim to the ‘testosteronic’ tantrums.

 The negative behavior provides a temporary sense of power and control, allowing individuals to feel a false sense of superiority. One God ! Keener look, you will know those they admire but can’t get."