Kenyan businesswoman and influencer Amber Ray has shared her perspective on relationships, stating that nothing can prevent a man from cheating.

In an undated video, Amber, a mother of two, reflected on her experiences and the lessons she has learned:

"Love is a personal choice, and so is cheating. There is nothing you can do to stop someone from cheating. Even if you cook for him every day or satisfy him in every way, if he wants to cheat, he will still do it. Even if you keep a close watch on him, the moment he gets a chance, he will cheat."

Her statements have drawn attention, especially given her past involvement with businessman Jimal Roho Safi while he was still married to his ex-wife, Amira.

In a 2021 interview on Jalang'o TV, Jimal opened up about his life before meeting Amber. He described how he was living a lavish lifestyle:

"I used to spend Sh50,000 per day on women. I had many different women. My wife should know that Amber is a blessing. She came into my life, and I changed a lot. I was a loner, and that’s the most dangerous man."

Jimal eventually married Amber Ray as his second wife, claiming he had reformed his ways. He even entrusted Amber with his social media passwords to manage his accounts.

"Men go through a 'whore phase,' where they sleep with different women for no reason. It’s better to have two official wives than to have many women. Life has no rehearsals, and if you have a second wife, keep it official."

Jimal also revealed that his first wife, Amira, was aware of his relationship with Amber after photos of the two in Mombasa were leaked. He apologized, but the tension remained:

"My wife knew about our relationship with Amber after the photos were leaked. She confronted me, and I apologized. But since my family loves her, she poisoned them with different stories. I had to go public and make it official."