In a sermon that sparked debate, controversial Neno Evangelism Centre pastor James Ng’ang’a advised women to avoid entertaining multiple suitors while searching for a life partner.

Speaking during a November 2024 church service, Ng’ang’a argued that many women remain single because they engage with men who offer sweet words but no real commitment. He warned that such distractions prevent them from meeting someone genuinely interested in marriage.

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Ng’ang’a urged women to stop falling for empty flattery, stating, “Kenya is not the reason you’re not married; you’re the obstacle. You’re being chewed like Big G and spit out by these crooks.” He emphasized the importance of demanding respect and seriousness from potential partners instead of getting carried away by affectionate names.

“If a man keeps calling you ‘babe’ repeatedly, tell him, ‘Don’t call me babe—call me a cow instead!'” he quipped, encouraging women to seek meaningful relationships rather than superficial attention.

Ng’ang’a’s relationship teachings have often drawn mixed reactions, and another of his controversial sermons in November 2024 warned men about forming crushes on women they meet on social media. He claimed such interactions could lead to spiritual entanglements, where a woman’s spirit might engage with a man’s spirit during sleep.

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His remarks sparked online debate, with some dismissing them as extreme while others humorously entertained the idea of supernatural encounters with their celebrity crushes.