This week has been a tough one for Zari Hassan's husband, Shakib Cham, who has faced repeated embarrassment following Diamond Platnumz's unexpected appearance at their daughter Tiffah's birthday. But before you start feeling sorry for Shakib, let's dive into the details.

A Quick Backstory

After the incident, a furious Shakib reportedly confronted Zari in private, only for her to publicly fire back, telling him to either shape up or ship out if he couldn't handle his insecurities about Diamond.

But the embarrassment didn’t stop there. Yesterday, Zari’s manager, Galston Anthony, also weighed in on why Diamond doesn’t seem to respect Shakib.

In a candid social media post, Galston advised Shakib that his insecurities stem from his lack of personal achievements compared to Diamond's superstar status. He urged Shakib to overcome his fears and step up his game.

Now that you're up to speed, here’s why you shouldn't feel sorry for Shakib:

Know your role and play it well

Just like trophy wives of the past who were seen but not heard, Shakib should learn to play his role of being a trophy husband.

Zari didn’t marry him for his money or intellect—it's pretty clear why she chose him. Wink... Wink...

He Wasn’t Forced to Marry Her

This was a willing partnership. Shakib should have known what he was signing up for when he married Zari, who came with a lot of history: five kids from two different fathers. Two of those kids are still young and need their father's presence, which happens to be Diamond Platnumz—a key point in this whole saga.

Zari Is a Boss Babe

Lastly, Zari has shown time and again, through her relationships with far more powerful men, that she’s her own person and no man, not even a husband, will control her. If Ivan couldn’t do it, and Diamond couldn’t do it, who is Shakib to think he can?

In Conclusion

This relationship is supposed to be mutually beneficial. Zari gets her arm candy and maintains her aspirational image, while Shakib enjoys the clout and increased exposure that comes with being involved with her.

Zari understands this. Shakib? Not so much...

Advice to Shakib

Stop catching feelings and get the bag. Many men wouldn't mind being in your position. Use it while the going is good. 

Disclaimer: This is my opinion, I could be wrong.