Media personality Lilian Muli has revealed that she went back to her ex only to discover later that he had a full-blown pregnant side chick.

Through her Insta stories, the news anchor expressed her heartache and offered advice to women, cautioning them against going back to their exes.

The mother of two, currently co-parenting with her two baby daddies, noted that exes never change, comparing them to leopard spots.

"Never go back to an ex because leopards don't change their spots. People don't change. Tried this once and cried premium tears. The dude had a heavily pregnant woman on the side. I should just write a book at this rate. Will you buy it?" Muli candidly shared in a video on her Insta stories.

Speaking in the past on a reality show, the media personality revealed that it takes her long to recover from heartbreak.

"It takes me a while to bounce back. I really grieve and mourn over breakups. I play love songs. I take long drives, I eat ice cream..."

She ended her seven-year marriage to Moses Kanene with whom she had a child in 2016.

Subsequently, the TV personality entered into a relationship with Jared Nevaton, the chairman of Shabana FC, resulting in the birth of another son.

However, their union became a subject of controversy in 2018, and Lilian openly labelled Jared as a "community husband."

Following the publicized incident, they decided to part ways.

Post the highly publicized breakup, Lilian declared her reluctance to settle for an ordinary lover.

“Never settle for an ordinary lover, never settle for less than you deserve, you are so worthy of being loved so passionately and madly,” she wrote.

“You deserve to be loved as a whole with all your imperfections and flaws. You deserve someone who puts you first as if you were the only thing that matters,” Lilian added.