Dr Ofweneke: Never Go back to a Woman who Dumped You
Kenyan comedian and media personality Sande Bush Oyolo, alias Dr Ofweneke, has advised men never to return to relationships with women who left them.
Speaking during his late-night radio show on Friday, July 11, 2025, Ofweneke urged men to move on after a breakup, insisting that they should not rekindle love with a woman who dumped them.
“Do not ever get back with a woman who left you move on,” he said.
He also advised men not to beg women to stay in a relationship, saying that if a woman shows signs of leaving, they should be the first to open the door and let her go.
“If she shows signs of walking out, be the first to open the door for her. Don’t beg her to stay. Let her leave,” he added.
Ofweneke on men’s relationships
This comes after he warned men against losing focus on their purpose and goals because love often marks the beginning of a man’s downfall.
In an Instagram post on Monday, June 23, 2025, he emphasised that while love can be a powerful and positive force in a person’s life, it must never come at the expense of ambition, personal development, or long-term objectives.
“A man’s downfall starts when he ignores his purpose and goals just because he is in love,” Ofweneke wrote.
In the same post, the TV presenter was seen having a conversation with a man holding an umbrella, seemingly showing him something within a fenced parcel of land
He was captured pointing with his left hand as the man looked on attentively.
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Ofweneke, who is known for giving relationship advice, on the night of Saturday, June 21, 2025, during an interview with one of the local TV stations, he argued that the conversation around polygamy should be left to rich men only.
He argued that any poor man should never even think or comment on polygamy.
According to the comedian, a poor man cannot even feed his one wife.
“If you are a poor man, do not comment about polygamy, because you cannot even feed that one wife that you have. Polygamy is a conversation that only rich men can afford. It is only when you are rich that you can know how you would feel about polygamy,” Dr Ofweneke said.
